The Truth About Natural Game
There are typically 2 types of social dynamics interactions categorized you used whenever you go out: structural and natural. Being structural is when you are utilizing any structured linear method of socializing, almost like an already prepared social performance that you have successfully done before, hence a specific routine.
One example of this would be utilizing the classic M3 Model contributed by the pick-up artist Mystery, in which you are using attraction followed by comfort and then leading up to seduction, broken down into different phases, A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, and S3. (For those who are unfamiliar with the M3 Model, these respectively equate to Opening, Female-to-Male Interest, Male-to-Female Interest, Conversation, Connection, Intimacy, Foreplay, Last Minute Resistance, and Sex)
And by being natural, you are basically in the moment and winging it, but that doesn’t presuppose you are NOT using some kinds of a little bit of a structure because periodically, something will just pop into your head when you are being in the moment that will lead you to do a part of a social performance, component of that routine, which could be the old joke you have told in the past or stories.
In this scenario of interacting to a girl for example, if you opened her and she is already attracted to you within the first minute, you have already skipped all the attraction needed to be built and can go into establishing comfort and building a connection; and you can add in some scripts you have told in the past you realized that work magic to building comfort with a girl, but not necessary the exact same things. (You are editing your social performance.)
But how do you become natural where you can wing it, but most importantly do it right, instead of coming off as a creep or a wimp.
Well, if you look at some of the best pickup-artists today who started out socially inadequate, you will realize a majority of them started out using some forms of structure to help them in their social interaction to becoming a natural, if they did not, they were already naturals to begin with; and they got so familiar with that structure that it became ingrained into their mind where now they do everything effectively that gets the girl subconsiously and spontaneously without needing to think about it, which to everybody else appears natural.
Remember first learning to read back when you when you were a kid?
You know I always thought it was pointless to learn the name of the alphabet, but now I understood that it was a learning process to being a spontaneous, natural reader. First you learned the alphabet, then the alphabetical phonics, and then using the structural mnemonic sounds of the letters, you learned to be natural and spontaneous with every new word you come across.
Similar to social dynamics, you wouldn’t properly start out if you weren’t giving some guidelines or structures, or else you would be doing a lot of social miscalibration by trying to be all natural; hence, come across as unnatural. Why should you care about social miscalibration?.
Well, I could make a huge list, but one reason is you could unintentionally come off a creeper or weirdo and loss a lot of social proof. When other girls see that, your chance are slim to getting her because as you aware, girls are always thinking about their status, and with you already being the creep, she doesn’t want to be affiliated with a creep.
Now I am not saying one is better than the over, or vice-versa, but I do advocate using both in conjunction to achieve total social skills mastery because that is exactly the ideal outcome you want eventually!
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